How does Neuro-Diversity Relate to Celebrating Hanukkah?

Families with Autism: Celebrating an Inclusive Holiday

For many Jewish families, Hanukkah is a time to get together with the family, light the menorah, spin the dreidel, and enjoy jelly-filled donuts! Families have passed these traditions on from generation to generation as they celebrate the Festival of LIghts.

The story of Hanukkah tells us of the feat the Jews accomplished against the Greeks. At this time, Israel was ruled by King Antiochus Epiphanes, who did not allow the Jews to practice Judaism. Instead of succumbing to his reign, many Jews began studying the Torah in secret in caves, where they could not be found. Additionally, the most sacred place in the world for Jews was the ancient Temple in Jerusalem. King Antiochus forbade all Jews from worshiping at this temple and took it over for himself and his Greek idols. A small group from the Jewish community came together to fight against the entire Greek army--they called themselves the Maccabees. Together, they took on the King’s army and, against all odds, were victorious.

When the Maccabees re-entered the temple, they were crushed to see that there was only enough oil to keep light in the temple for one day. But in a miraculous turn of events, the oil lasted eight days, just enough time to get more oil.

The story of Hannukah is great to share with children, especially those who are neuro-divergent. It teaches us to be resilient and to believe in ourselves. Although the Maccabees could’ve given up because they felt too small to fight against the King’s army, they persevered. It may be easy to lose sight of ourselves sometimes, but children need to be reminded of their inner strength and how much they can accomplish if they put their minds to it. This story reminds us to never give up on ourselves and always remember how much light is around us.

We wish you a very Happy Hannukah and hope you enjoy some this Festival of Lights!

Quick Tips for an Inclusive Holidays

Include all children in the holiday traditions
Create a social story to prepare your child with autism for the celebration
Do your own thing. If the Menorah lighting at school or at the mall creates too much of a sensory overload, opt for a quiet family gathering at home
Safety Tip: Opt for battery operated or electric lights or leave the menorah out of the reach of children, and away from curtains and drapes